Right before bed I take a pretty hefty dose of steroids.
It feels like I have 12 different hamsters on 12 different hampster wheels in my brain. Those little guys are there all day, but just when things are quieting down for the night, I throw a bunch of uppers on the party. (Mental image of hampster doing blow off hooker hampsters comes to mind…. but I digress).
Left unchecked, these little party animals will pull an all-nighter and spin their wheels about everything from:
- Did I remember to pack my headphones for tomorrow’s hospital stay?
- Am I planning enough of a 1st birthday party for my daughters first birthday next week?
- Did I ruin Bea forever by letting her watch 15 minutes of youtube videos today?
- Do we have all the logistics worked out for Bea/dog/cats over the next few days?
- Et cetera, ad nauseam
After a few hours, my drugged out hampster friends join forces and start in on the big F E A R hampster wheel, and that is where the real trouble begins.
I am afraid.
I don’t know what to expect during this first inpatient round (3-4 days) of treatment. Methotrexate has been billed a pretty terrible/dangerous drug, that may steralize me, and has some pretty significant toxicity side effects. It will probably be the drug that will push me into the true cancer patient mode (hair loss, vomiting, mouth sours, extreme fatigue). On the other hand, Methotrexate is the best chance I have to attack the tumors in my brain, and avoid radiation.
I am afraid of the unknown. I’m afraid that it will hurt, I’m afraid that I won’t be strong enough, I’m afraid that it won’t work the way they hope it will. I’m afraid.
Logically, I know some parts of the process will hurt, but I can handle physical pain. I am strong enough because there is no other option, and I have 100% faith that we are on the right path, and the drugs will work, but logic and fear don’t necessarily cancel each other out. In fact, in the middle of the night, logic seems pretty insignificant. So, back to those hampsters. My first line of attack is throwing some anti-anxiety pills on the party. That quiets things down for a while, but apparently the steroids are mightier than the anti anxiety pills, so I end up writing random blog posts about hampsters at 5 am and shopping on the Internet. Do you think Amazon delivers to hospital rooms?
In all seriousness, I know most of my fear is because this is all new and unknown. As I get into a routine, 3-4 day hospital admits and the side effects that go with them, will become routine. Routine is the ultimate anxiety/fear diffuser, and I’m looking forward it!